subscribe feed

Archive for November, 2009

Staying Sober When You Swing

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

A lot of swinging opportunities can be found in private parties or swingers clubs. It is only natural that you will be drinking in such occasions, but if you come to the premise with the purpose of swinging you should never drink too much. Staying sober when you swing is very important and this article will explain to you why.

First of all, swinging is about being sensitive and having mutual pleasures. This goes for all parties involved in the experience. If you are drunk — or even use recreational drugs and get high — you will lose your senses and it will most likely be a disaster. There is a great chance that you might make other parties involved uncomfortable with your acts and the overall experience will be ruined.

Staying sober when you swing is also important because there are limits that must be appreciated. Once you lose yourself to alcohol, reminding yourself to stay within the predetermined boundaries can be a difficult task to complete. If this is the case, you will end up breaking your spouse’s heart and disappointing your swinging mates. Do you realize how devastating that can be? You can be ruining the chance of enjoying another nice swinging session or attending swinging events in the process.

Now that you know how important it is to stay sober when you swing, all you have to do next is act accordingly. Several shots of your favorite liquor are still fine, but you shouldn’t go overboard. Besides, by staying sober you can enjoy the process even more.

Swinging the Safe Way

Friday, November 6th, 2009

A lot of people who enjoy swinging as part of their lives know that there are plenty sexual activities involved in swinging. With the issue of sexually transmitted diseases, or STD’s, becoming more sensitive, it is essentially important to practice safe sex whenever you are swinging. Most members of the swinging community know this, but you will still find one or two swingers who refuse to use simple prevention methods such as condoms to prevent STD’s.

Whenever you are approaching a swinging opportunity, be clear that you will not engage sexual activities unless you are sure it is completely safe and protected. There is nothing wrong with asking your playmates or other swinging couples about their sexual health as long as you do it politely. They will appreciate your concern and will openly explain to you matters that you need to hear. You should use the same approach whenever someone asks you about your sexual health before swinging.

Safe sex practice is a must. There are medications that you can take to prevent STD’s, but the use of condoms will substantially decrease the risk so you must use one when swinging. Some of you may not be comfortable with the use of condoms — it is OK not to use them as long as all parties involved are comfortable with the decision — but STD prevention methods must still be taken. With proper care to your sexual health, you will be able to swing safely and enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest.